Happiness = Time x Discipline
January 2nd, 2008
This simple equation that was alluded to in an earlier post points to the importance of discipline in achieving happiness. Very simply, the amount of happiness and fulfilment we experience is directly proportional to the amount of discipline we expend and the period over which we expend that discipline. As Buddha said, “To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one’s family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one’s own mind.”
Unfortunately, we usually have negative associations with discipline. Obedience and punishment are usually associated with discipline in early life. However self-discipline which is really what we are talking about here is self-enforced and allows one to move towards ones goals and be happier. Mystics and spiritual adepts have demonstrated incredible levels of discipline which automatically emerges from a strong commitment to be aligned with the highest goals.
Discipline could manifest in several ways - practicing a musical instrument, refining a technique for drawing, exercising, relaxing, writing, reading, taking a course, doing homework, etc. In the context of spirituality, discipline may manifest as meditation, attending uplifting talks, cultivating awareness, yoga, or service.
During a typical day, one is constantly drawn in many directions. Oftentimes, we are distracted, and stressed. A quick outlet in the form of indulgence in a magazine, coffee, chocolate or excessive talk or even listening to music or watching television results. The day becomes a few bursts of activity interspersed with the indulgent actions. No time or inclination to do anything that even sounds like it would require discipline. However, we also find that we are oddly unfulfilled and feeling somewhat empty and even unhappy with such a day.
Instead if we inject discipline a few times a day (even a few minutes at a time), this can change the quality of the day considerably. A 20 minute meditation in the morning, perhaps listening to some motivational or inspirational audio while driving to work, watching the breath during gaps in work, some exercise in the evening and ending the day with listening to a talk or fine music can dramatically change the level of happiness, contentment and fulfilment that one feels. This feeling is apparent right away, but even more importantly, it builds up over time. If you meditate on a given day, the next day is clearer and more relaxed and crisp. The same can be said of other spiritual disciplines.
Over time, we experience happiness in various ways. It starts with a feeling of relaxed alertness and calmness, then leads to satisfaction and fulfilment which leads to a feeling of joy and lightness and love.







